If that happens, it may be very upsetting to you.

Just get out of the house somewhere where the two of you can have a private conversation, perhaps outdoors where you can walk while you talk, and tell him that you saw that material. But you can't just let it go.ĭo not assume that your dad is gay. It probably won't be in the top 10 favorite conversations with your dad. You have to have a conversation with your dad about those pictures. This is one of those situations where there isn't a really great solution. I have no one to talk to, and I feel like I am doing my mom wrong.

How do you think I should deal with this? Should I talk to him or tell my mom? I know my brothers would disown him and I don't want to hurt my dad, but he is killing me. My dad is very secretive, and I have found his porn that is man-on-man.